Whether our species can shift the current trajectory toward global social collapse and mass extinction may in fact depend on our capacity to figure out creative ways to intervene in polarized conflicts related to crises, which prevent us from coming together at the level necessary to face extremely high-stakes global dilemmas, such as climate change. Mariam is offering her support in response to this moment, as one contribution to our collective capacity.
Friend, mentor, and colleague, Miki Kashtan, says this about Mariam’s new offering: “I am beyond excited that Mariam is offering these coaching calls, and I hope hundreds of people come to them. Conflict avoidance, anywhere that it happens, sustains the status quo. Mariam’s approach is practical, specific, and visionary all at once. Seeding the world with more people who have capacity and willingness to engage with conflict at a time when conflicts are increasing is one key acupuncture intervention I trust can support our collective capacity to avert disasters.”
Conflict is a normal part of life, which happens when unaddressed feedback leads to events that result in loss of trust. Conflict is alerting us that something has happened somewhere within the living webs of connection we participate in, and it invites our attention to support realignment and flow.
But we don’t respond to conflict in a vacuum. Most of us are surrounded by norms and structures that can make it easy to react to conflicts with some form of avoidance or coercion, which usually results in further loss of trust and repression of underlying feedback. Because this is the water many of us are swimming in, we often lack the support we would need to respond to conflict in integrative ways that truly attend to feedback and loss of trust. And oftentimes, even with support, our capacity is not enough to respond how we would ideally want.
Repressive conflict patterns and low capacity for integrative conflict responses mean that we are likely to experience intense, often escalating conflict at many scales; interpersonal, organizational, and systemic. Whether our species can shift the current trajectory toward global social collapse and mass extinction may in fact depend on our capacity to figure out creative ways to intervene in polarized conflicts related to crises, which prevent us from coming together at the level necessary to face extremely high-stakes global dilemmas, such as climate change.
These calls are offered on a gift economy basis, in coordination with the Nonviolent Global Liberation Community (NGL). That means there is no request or expectation for you to contribute a specific amount. Mariam’s request is that you give an amount to NGL that feels sustainable and within whole-hearted willingness for you, which includes the possibility that you will choose to give nothing at all. Whatever money is contributed from these calls will be added to a pool of money from other programs, offerings, and gifts, which NGL members then distribute collaboratively among one another, based on need.
For the time being, registration is handled by BayNVC, and these calls are open to anyone, whether or not they are associated with NGL.
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